So you want to write your own vows but you’re not a writer. You know, sort of, what you want to say but don’t know how to say it. You wonder how you’ll ever find the right words, no the perfect words, to express how you feel. And of course it has to be perfect because it’s your wedding vows!!!! What if there was a way for even the most reluctant writer to write their own vows? Well there is!
One of the things I do with all my couples is have a chat about how we will approach writing their vows. I often help people to write their own vows by asking them lots and lots of questions, gathering the key words, expressions and sentiments and then putting what I call ‘vow form’ to what we have discussed. What it means is that your vows are your words, your expressions and your sentiments and therefore you have written your vows. I’ve just guided you through the process and helped to put flow, form and polish to what you want to say.
You can start the process having no idea what you want to say, and by the end of it, you have beautiful, heartfelt, often humorous and very personal vows.
If you need some help with your vows, please be in touch. I’d love to help you out.