Caitlin & Stuart’s Relaxed Simply You Wedding Ceremony in Melbourne

If you like the idea of a wedding ceremony that feels relaxed, meaningful, and genuinely you - without the pressure of long vows or formal structure - Caitlin and Stuart’s Simply You ceremony is a beautiful example of how powerful a short ceremony can be.

Held at an iconically Melbourne venue and recently featured on Hello May, their day was full of warmth, connection, and quality time with their people.

Caitlin and Stuart walking together, with their dog, into their Simply You ceremony in Melbourne

A Laid-Back Start with a Very Melbourne Feel

Caitlin and Stuart’s guests arrived to pre-ceremony drinks, canapés, and plenty of chatting and mingling — all set to the sound of bagpipes playing in the background. It immediately set the tone: relaxed, connected, and celebratory.

Rather than making a big formal entrance, Caitlin and Stuart arrived together, taking time to say hello to their family and friends before we gathered everyone for the ceremony. It was intentional, unhurried, and grounded in connection which was exactly what they wanted.

Caitlin and Stuart standing at the front of their relaxed wedding ceremony in Melbourne, sharing a moment together as their celebrant speaks.

A Simply You Ceremony: Short, Meaningful, and Full of Heart

Their Simply You ceremony was a 10-minute celebration focused on the essence of their life together.

We spoke about:

  • The solid, steady bond they share

  • Their deep love for their dog, Tilly, who was right there with us

  • And the true test of their relationship: Caitlin teaching Stuart how to ski 

(He passed - relationship intact!)

Instead of writing personal vows, Caitlin and Stuart chose to say just the legal line. No pressure, no performance, just a quiet, profound moment that felt completely right for them.

Stuart placing Caitlin’s wedding ring on her finger during their short and heartfelt Simply You ceremony.

A Ceremony That Involved Everyone

One of the most fun moments came at the end, when their guests were invited to loudly and enthusiastically say “I do”to Caitlin and Stuart! Promising to support them, celebrate with them, and party the night away.

It was energetic, inclusive, and full of laughs - a reminder that a wedding ceremony doesn’t have to be long to be deeply meaningful.

View from behind Caitlin and Stuart as their guests gather to witness their intimate wedding ceremony in Melbourne.

Caitlin and Stuart celebrating just married with their arms raised as their guests cheer at the end of their Simply You ceremony.

Why Short Wedding Ceremonies Work So Well

Caitlin and Stuart’s day is a perfect example of why more couples are choosing short and sweet wedding ceremonies:

  • They keep guests engaged and present

  • They leave more space for connection and free flowing celebrations

  • They remove pressure around being the centre of attention

  • They focus on what really matters - the commitment and the connection, not the performance

A Simply You ceremony is ideal for couples planning:

  • Micro weddings

  • Relaxed Melbourne weddings

  • Elopements or intimate celebrations

  • Ceremonies where quality time with guests is a priority

A Beautiful Melbourne Wedding Day

Their incredible wedding team brought everything together seamlessly:

And of course, Caitlin and Stuart themselves - calm, fun, and completely present - all made the day what it was.

Thinking About a Simply You Ceremony?

If you’re planning a Melbourne wedding and are drawn to a ceremony that’s relaxed, heartfelt, and personal - without being long or overly formal -  a Simply You ceremony might be exactly what you’re looking for.

Caitlin and Stuart, thank you for choosing me to be part of such a special celebration. I loved every moment.

You can also see more from their beautiful day via their feature on Hello May

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