Simply You vs Authentically You: Choosing the Right Wedding Ceremony for You
Not sure whether Simply You or Authentically You is the right wedding ceremony for you? Melbourne Celebrant Kate Mac explains what both ceremony options have in common, the difference in their depth, and how to choose the ceremony that feels right for you.
What’s your ceremony style?
Hi, I’m Celebrant Kate Mac, and this blog exists to help you figure out which ceremony style feels right for you.
I offer two options, Simply You and Authentically You, and while they’re different in length, they share the same heart.
Before we get into the differences, let’s start with what’s the same.
What Simply You and Authentically You Have in Common
Both Simply You and Authentically You ceremonies are:
Written especially for you
Relaxed, warm, and connected in tone
Designed to welcome your guests and bring everyone into the moment
Inclusive of acknowledgements for the important people in your lives
A meaningful celebration of what this moment represents for you both
No matter which option you choose, your ceremony will feel personal, intentional, and true to you.
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The Key Difference: Length
The biggest difference between Simply You and Authentically You is length...
Authentically You is a 20–30 minute ceremony
Simply You is a 10 minute ceremony
Both are meaningful. Both are connected.
The difference is the depth of each element in your ceremony.
I’ll take you through some of those elements and some examples…
Acknowledging the People Who Matter Most
Let’s say we’re acknowledging someone special to you.
In an Authentically You ceremony, we have space to share 3-4 sentences, something a little more reflective and detailed
In a Simply You ceremony, it’s more like a shout-out in 1–2 sentences, still meaningful but more succinct
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Sharing Your Story
This is often where couples really feel the difference.
In an Authentically You ceremony, we can explore your story in more depth. That might include:
What’s important to you as a couple
Insights into your relationship
Reflections on your journey or achievements
What you value and love about each other
Think of this as 4–6 short paragraphs that capture who you are and what you’re celebrating.
In a Simply You ceremony, we focus on the essence of your relationship in 1 paragraph that still conveys you and is meaningful, just not as much depth.
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Planning and Preparation
Both options include the same number of planning sessions, so you’ll feel supported either way.
The difference is in the time we spend in each meeting:
Authentically You: around 60-minute sessions
Simply You: around 30-minute sessions
This reflects the level of depth we’re creating together.
Your Vows and the Legal Side
No matter which ceremony you choose:
You’ll receive guidance and support to write your vows
All legal requirements are seamlessly included in your ceremony
So you can focus on the experience, knowing everything is taken care of.
Which One Is Right for You?
There’s no “better” option, just what feels right for you.
If you’re drawn to something short, simple, and meaningful, Simply You might be the perfect fit.
If you’d love a little more space to explore your story and create a fuller ceremony experience, Authentically You could be the one.
Either way, your ceremony will be a celebration of you, and a moment you’ll genuinely love.
Need Help Deciding?
If you’re not quite sure which direction to go, feel free to get in touch. I’m happy to help you figure out what feels right for you.